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Dear Bad Gay,
I live in a big queer house with four friends. It's the kind of space where intimacy is encouraged and open communication is lauded, with queer-platonic vibes aplenty.
Recently, me and one of my housemates rekindled a romance that ended between us four years ago, only this time we're totally in love. We're polyamorous, so are dating others at the same time, but they've become my primary partner, and we told our other housemates about it as soon as we knew it was serious. They've all been fine with it except for one: our best friend, with whom we've always had a playful, sibling-y dynamic.
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