Whew, this was a cathartic read! I thought that getting skeeved out by so many of the cis enbies while gladly hooking up with cis men meant I was insane
It’s so hard to explain what being ftm on Grindr is like to someone who has never experienced it. The number of men who think that because I have a front hole that I’m just there to be *a* hole is wild. The funny thing is that being a hole is very much part of my kink but there’s a way to approach that and a million ways not to and the Grindr men really only seem to know the latter lol.
there can def be alienating interactions but by and large i find most of them to be neutral and nice. a lot of guys do know what to say and that’s why i keep using the app to get laid haha
Whew, this was a cathartic read! I thought that getting skeeved out by so many of the cis enbies while gladly hooking up with cis men meant I was insane
turns out i’m just a really queer guy :)
It’s so hard to explain what being ftm on Grindr is like to someone who has never experienced it. The number of men who think that because I have a front hole that I’m just there to be *a* hole is wild. The funny thing is that being a hole is very much part of my kink but there’s a way to approach that and a million ways not to and the Grindr men really only seem to know the latter lol.
there can def be alienating interactions but by and large i find most of them to be neutral and nice. a lot of guys do know what to say and that’s why i keep using the app to get laid haha