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You've given me a lot to think about: my stone top tendencies, my secret shameful/shameless fantasies, my unconscious yearning for effeminate men.

Time to watch Frasier on Hulu and not think about anything at all!

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thank you <3 hard same. it's always time for frasier!

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Oh shit Fraiser is off of Netflix?! That’s also homophobic. 😟 But seriously, the tension between “dangerous” desire and desire that we can live along side of is something I’ve been thinking a lot about lately.

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I watched Frasier like obsessively as a child because my family (for some reason) bought the entire series on DVD, and you capture the weird "we're sissies but we're not......GAY" vibe of the show's world so perfectly. See also Bulldog being played by a gay and the time they think Roz is a post-transition Niles and when she like implicitly does go on one gay date, what could have been!!

Also not to gush but all of these so far have been extremely good and I am like enjoying catching up on them while sick lol

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