thank you for writing this! i shared this essay with some people who asked about social conservatism in a discussion about sex work recently -- so i wanted to come back and thank you for everything you've articulated here, as i remembered it months later!
ok this perfectly explains why so many people were upset with my last infographic on asking for what you want because it **did not** validate them.
lol no it empowered them to make decisions instead. yuck
love you, perv
love you, fr33k
thank you for writing this! i shared this essay with some people who asked about social conservatism in a discussion about sex work recently -- so i wanted to come back and thank you for everything you've articulated here, as i remembered it months later!
thank you <3