Came here (via Daniel Lavery) for information on how to enter my middle-aged slut era, but received even more valuable knowledge about where to pee in New York!
I really loved this, as someone on a break from this realm of activities. Your description of parsing the different ways people can pursue a date's yeses and no's is so good.
Reading this today was wild timing – I also recently broke a (multiple years-long) hiatus of hooking up with random men. Your description of the legs-over-shoulders, intellectualized pleasure-pain exchange is so spot on.
I think we have sex with a lot of the same kind of men. I feel such a prickly sporadic irritable fondness for the guys I recognize in your writing!
i believe it🙄🤪
Came here (via Daniel Lavery) for information on how to enter my middle-aged slut era, but received even more valuable knowledge about where to pee in New York!
I really loved this, as someone on a break from this realm of activities. Your description of parsing the different ways people can pursue a date's yeses and no's is so good.
it’s so fun :) i’m glad other people think so too
Reading this today was wild timing – I also recently broke a (multiple years-long) hiatus of hooking up with random men. Your description of the legs-over-shoulders, intellectualized pleasure-pain exchange is so spot on.